Danish children

In a recent article in the German online newspaper Focus titled “Danish Children Are Happier Because Parents Do 6 Things Differently,” authors Jessica Joelle Alexander and Iben Dissing Sandhal explore how Danish parents differ in raising their children and whether this approach contributes to the Danish sense of happiness. The main findings include:

1. Teaching children real-life skills: Danish parents treat children with respect, recognize their role as role models, and focus on developing inner compasses in children rather than just success.

2. Allowing children to solve problems: Parents encourage independence and self-esteem, allowing children to overcome obstacles themselves, making them more resilient and confident.

3. Emphasis on free play: Danish parents value the importance of play in children, as it promotes learning to manage stress and develop social skills.

4. Praise in moderation: Parents appreciate sincere praise linked to process and perseverance, rather than praising intelligence or talent.

5. Relaxation and respect: Danish parents use a democratic approach and establish clear rules but are responsive to children, acting kindly and decisively, strengthening bonds with them.

6. Valuing “hygge”: Family togetherness and a sense of connection are key to the Danish sense of happiness, reflected in the tradition of hygge.

I believe that through our project School21 and the establishment of outdoor classrooms, we will encourage the so-called hygge among children.

Špela Rakovec, Gymnasium France Prešeren Kranj

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